Phebe Whittemore Carter was born in 1807 in Maine. In 1834, at the age of 27, she joined the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Her family did not approve of her decision and were not happy when she decided to move to Kirtland, Ohio to be with the Saints. I had a hard time finding a source that said who taught and baptized her, and when, exactly, she moved to Kirtland, but we know that in 1837 she met and married Wilford Woodruff who was also 27.
A few months after their marriage, her husband was called on a mission to the Eastern United States and, since Phebe’s family lived there, she decided to go along. They were not very rich, so when it was time to buy a coach ticket for the last leg of the journey to Hartford, they only had enough money for one ticket. Wilford bought one for his wife, and he walked the 137 miles on foot.
Soon Phebe was pregnant with her first child so they decided to stay in Maine until after the baby was born. In 1938 they decided to return to Kirtland, and on the way she became very sick. She thought she would die, and even had an out-of-body experience during which she spoke with a heavenly being and was given a choice whether to return to her body or not. She received a blessing from her husband and was revived.
By the time she was ready to travel again the Saints had already been driven out of Missouri and Kirkland. Wilford was leading a group of about 50 saints from Maine and they decided to stop in Rochester, Illinois, and stayed there until 1839 when they moved to Quincy Illinois. Wilford was called to serve a mission in Great Britain, and while he was gone, Phebe’s baby daughter died. She also had another child, a son, who is named after his father.
When Wilford returned from Great Britain in 1841, they moved to Nauvoo and stayed there until 1844. During that time they receive their temple endowment and are sealed by Hyrum Smith.
In 1844 Phebe and Wilford moved to England so that Wilford could preside over the British Mission. While there, Phebe had another baby. They returned to Nauvoo in 1846, in time for the Nauvoo Temple dedication, but soon needed to leave Nauvoo along with the rest of the saints due to persecution.
In 1846, Wilford and Phebe were taught about the principle of plural marriage. At first Phoebe was opposed to the principle, but later gained a testimony of it. Wilford took on a total of nine additional plural wives, though a few of the marriages were short lived.
Wilford was in the first wagon train to travel to Utah in 1847. He returned to Council Bluffs the same summer, but arrived three days after Phebe had given birth. Wilford was called to preside over the Eastern States missions and Phebe and the children went with him. Phebe’s new baby died not long after they arrived.
They stayed in the Eastern United States until 1850, when they finally migrated to the Salt Lake Valley. They built a home called The Valley House and Phebe lived there the rest of her life. She ended up having nine children in total but only five lived past age 2.
In 1879 Wilford Woodruff went into hiding because of polygamy. He spent a lot of time in or near Saint George where he had served as temple president. Meanwhile, Phebe served in the presidency of the SLC 14th Stake Relief Society. In 1885 she became ill. When Wilford heard that Phebe was ill he came to Salt Lake and was by her side when she died in November of 1885, but was unable to attend her funeral for fear of capture and incarceration. In 1889 Wilford Woodruff became the 4th President of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and in 1890 he issued the Manifesto ending the practice of Plural Marriage.








