I wrote a lot about Joseph in 2022, so much so that it took two posts that you can find here and here. This year as I was reading the story again, I was thinking about how I would present it to 15-year-olds. A lot of what I wrote about four years ago is interesting to a scriptorian but might not be very interesting to a teenager. In reality, what I ended up writing four years ago doesn't actually give anyone practical advice on how to live your life. I didn't end up teaching the lesson this week, but my co-teacher gave a beautiful lesson that has real application in a modern teen's life. She first talked about Joseph fleeing Potiphar's wife and how we might apply the lessons from that story in our lives to avoid temptation and sin. Then she talked about all that Joseph went through and how, though it seemed terribly unjust at the time, it brought Joseph to the place he needed to be right when he needed to be there to save his family.
As someone who is on the other side of 60, it is this message that resonated the most with me this year. The question I ask myself is, did Joseph's brothers have to sell him into slavery for him to end up in Egypt in time to save his family? Did Potiphar's wife have to proposition him and did he have to languish four years in jail in order to catch Pharaoh's attention?
I think the answer is no. I think that the Lord doesn't depend on other's bad decisions to accomplish his works. It is possible that if Joseph's brothers had been kinder to him, something else, perhaps less hurtful, might have happened to him to bring him into Egypt. If Potiphar's wife hadn't propositioned him, maybe Pharoah would have met him anyway, since he was working for the Pharoah's captain of the guard.
The encouraging thing about this story is that even when someone uses their free agency to hurt us or misuse us, God is great enough to figure out a way to help us accomplish our mission on earth anyway. If our brothers throw us into the pit, He can send Ishmaelites (I think it is significant that is was a branch of the covenant family) to save us. If we are wrongly accused, He will give our cellmates prophetic dreams that will eventually lead to us being brought before Pharoah. If we are patient and faithful, the Lord will help us overcome any roadblock put in our way by the sins of others.
And what if I am the betraying brother? What if I am Potiphar's wife? What if my actions cause someone else to be thrown into some kind of proverbial pit? In my mind, the greatest blessing of the atonement is not that my sins can be washed away, it is that God's grace can somehow heal the negative consequences of my sins on others. My faults won't keep someone else from completing their mission. If I was at times a bad wife, a bad mother, or a bad friend, the atonement can heal my family, my spouse, or my friend. It is what I pray and hope for the most. It is what I hope and pray for every day.






